Sometimes, well lots of times these days, I get burdened and depressed by the state of our world.  Poverty, false promises, big egos, utopian ideals…

It’s nice to take time and remember that God is in charge and He alone can truly fullfill the promise of a perfect and everlasting world.  So my catechism study this week, I read about Heaven and the hope of a new world in Christ to look foward to.  (CCC 1023-1029, 1042-1050) It helped me to type it out while I read it, maybe it will stick in my mind a bit better that way.  It’s long but definitely a good read if you time to look through it.  I bolded the lines that impressed me:

Heaven

CCC 1023 Those who die in God’s grace and friendship and are perfectly purified live for ever with Christ. They are like God for ever, for they “see him as he is,” face to face”. (1 Jn 3:2, 1 Cor 13:12, Rev 22:4)

1024 This perfect life with the Most Holy Trinity-this communion of life and love with the Trinity, with the Virgin Mary, the angels and all the blessed is called “heaven.” Heaven is the ultimate end and fulfillment of the deepest human longings, the state of supreme, definitive happiness.

1025 To live in heaven is “to be with Christ. “ The elect live “in Christ. “ (Phil 1:23, Jn 14:3,1 Thess 4:17) but they retain, or rather find, their true identity, their own name. 

                For life is to be with Christ; where Christ is, there is life, there is the kingdom. (St. Ambrose)

1026 By his death and resurrections, Jesus Christ has “opened” heaven to us.  The life of the blessed consists in the full and perfect possession of the fruits of the redemption accomplished by Christ.  He makes partners in his heavenly glorification those who have believed in him and remained faithful to his will.  Heaven is the blessed community of all who are perfectly incorporated in into Christ. 

1027 This mystery of blessed communion with God and all who are in Christ is beyond all understanding and description.  Scripture speaks of it in images: life, light, peace, wedding feast, wine of the kingdom, the Father’s house, the heavenly Jerusalem, paradise: “no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man conceived, what God has prepared for those who love him. (1 Cor 2:9)

1028 Because of his transcendence, God cannot be seen as he is, unless he himself opens up his mystery to man’s immediate contemplation and gives him the capacity for it.  The Church calls this contemplation of God in his heavenly glory “the beatific vision”:

                “How great will your glory and happiness be, to be allowed to see God, to be honored with sharing the joy of salvation and eternal light with Christ your Lord and God,…to delight in the joy of immortality in the Kingdom of heaven with the righteous and God’s friends. (St. Cyprian)

1029 In the glory of heaven the blessed continue joyfully to fulfill God’s will in relation to other men and to all creation.  Already they reign with Christ; with him “they shall reign for ever and ever.  (Rev 22:5 and Mt 25:21,23)

The Hope of the New Heaven and the New Earth

1042 At the end of time, the Kingdom of God will come in its fullness. After the universal judgment, the righteous will reign for ever with Christ, glorified in body and soul.  The universe itself will be renewed:

                The Church…will receive her perfection only in the glory of heaven, when will come the time of the renewal of all things.  At that time, together with the human race, the universe itself, which is so closely related to man and which attains its destiny through him, will be perfectly re-established in Christ. (Acts 3:21, Eph 1:10, Col 1:20, 2 Pet 3:10-13)

1043 Sacred Scripture calls this mysterious renewal, which will transform humanity and the world, “new heavens and a new earth.  (2 pet 3:13, Rev 21:1)It will be the definitive realization of God’s plan to bring under a single head “all things in [Christ], things in heaven and things on earth.” (Eph 1:10)

1044 In this new universe, the heavenly Jerusalem, God will have his dwelling among men.  (Rev. 21:5) “He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning nor crying nor pain any more, for the former things have passed away.” (Rev 21:4)

1045 For man, this consummation will be the final realization of the unity of the human race, which God willed from creation and of which the pilgrim Church has been “in the nature of sacrament.” Those who are united with Christ will form the community of the redeemed, “the holy city” of God, “the Bride, the wife of the Lamb.” (Rev. 21:2, 9) She will not be wounded any longer by sin, stains, self-love, that destroy or wound the earthly community. (Rev 21:27) The beatific vision, in which God opens himself in an inexhaustible way to the elect, will be the ever-flowing well-spring of happiness, peace, and mutual communion.

1046 For the cosmos, Revelation affirms the profound common destiny of the material world and man:

                For the creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the sons of God…in hope because the creation itself will be set free from its bondage to decay…We know that the whole creation has been groaning in travail together until now, and not only the creation, but we ourselves, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait for adoption as sons, the redemption of our bodies. (Rom 8:19-23)

1047 The visible universe, then, is itself destined to be transformed, “so that the world itself, restored to its original state, facing no further obstacles, should be at the service of the just, “sharing their glorification in the risen Jesus Christ. (St. Irenaeus)

1048 “We know neither the moment of the consummation of the earth and of man, nor the way in which the universe will be transformed. The form of this world, distorted by sin, is passing away, and we are taught that God is preparing a new dwelling and a new earth in which righteousness dwells, in which happiness will fill and surpass all the desires of peace arising in the hearts of men.”

1049 “Far from diminishing our concern to develop this earth, the expectancy of a new earth should spur us on, for it is here that the body of a new human family grows, foreshadowing in some way the age in which is to come.  That is why, although we must be careful to distinguish earthly progress clearly from the increase of the kingdom of Christ, such progress is of vital concern to the kingdom of God, insofar as it can contribute to the better ordering of human society.”

1050 “When we have spread on earth the fruits of our nature and our enterprise…according to the command of the Lord and in his Spirit, we will find them once again, cleansed this time from the stain of sin, illuminated and transfigured, when Christ presents to his Father an eternal and universal kingdom.” God will then be “all in all” in eternal life. (1 Cor 5:28)

                True and subsistent life consists in this: the Father, through the Son, and in the Holy Spirit, pouring out his heavenly gifts on all things without exception.  Thanks to his mercy, we too, men that we are, have received the inalienable promise of eternal life. (St. Cyril of Jerusalem)


 

 

1. Cleaned my bathroom mirror and husband’s side of the sink (without complaining)

2. Went on a walk with all three children and everyone enjoyed it!

3. Took my son to get a haircut!

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My baby really dislikes driving in the car.  I was on my way home from a longer trip to a good friend’s house and he just was not going to calm down or fall asleep.  I needed to be home in time for my daughter’s arrival from school so I had to keep going.  He had been fed, his diaper was fine, and nothing was on top of him or bothering him.  He was fine so I knew it would be ok.  I still wished I had earplugs or could go-go-gadget my boob to him to lull him to sleep. 

The funny thing is that once we finally got out of the car, I opened up his door and upon seeing my face, his tear-streaked one immediately broke into a huge smile.  In that moment, he forgave me and forgot all about the torture he had just been put through. 

I wondered to myself if it were possible for me to be that forgiving of my children and their annoying antics that drive me up the wall.  My three year old frequently disobeys a simple order or conveniently forgets to follow through with a request throughout our days.  He is a boy and tends to daydream.  By the end of the day it’s hard for me put those incidences behind me and let it go.  They pull that one last straw and an image of all the day’s offenses flashes across my mind and I lose it. 

Later I feel bad of course and remind myself that my 3 year old and 6 year old do not ignore me because they do not love me or sit around drawing out plans for their next mode of attack against mom to see just how crazy mom can get.  (or at least not yet!)  My baby, most likely does not decide to wake up from a 15 minute nap and fuss the rest of the day because he wants to intentionally drive me crazy.  (they are smart but not that smart, right?)

I’m also learning, and re-learning, reevaluate my expectations for my children.  Should I really expect my six year old to always mind her manners and answer me politely?  Is it really fair to expect my 3 year old to listen and respond to every little thing I ask? And my baby, my precious squishy little baby, one day he’ll be all grown-up and won’t even want me to look at him in public.  He lives in a crazy house with loud, normal siblings, and a crazy over-ambitious momma.  Perhaps I shouldn’t be surprised when he’d rather be part of the action than sleep through it all.


I have been less than creative with my meals lately.  Did I even eat today? So for this Tasty Tuesday I’m going to give you my homemade mayo recipe. Did I already do this?  I know it is in my recipes but can’t remember if I actually made a post about it yet.

I love mayo

creamy whippy

I use mayo

chicken salad,poppy seed dressing, delightful sandwich spread

My kids love mayo

“Yay!! Mayonnaise!!”

Alright if you stuck with me through that here is the recipe

Mayonnaise in Cuisinart Processor

 1 Egg

1/3 cup oil  (I used safflower oil)

2 Tb Vinegar (white preferred)

1 tsp Sugar

½ tsp dry mustard (optional)

½ tsp Salt

 Put all ingredients in food processor and mix well.  Then as the processor is still on, slowly pour in 2/3 cup more of oil. 

 Makes around 1 cup of mayo


Look honey! I almost got my jeans on again!

Dealing with a post-partum body can be real frustrating sometimes.  This third time around, my annoyance with my extra curves and left-over pooch has more practical dimensions.  If I could fit into my old clothes again, I wouldn’t have to go to the trouble of shopping, (which if you remember I rather dislike).  Although, unless mommy shirts with fake spit-up stains and breast milk-rings and pants with cute boogery little handprints are going to become the next in vogue style, maybe some updating could do my wardrobe some good. 

I’m not sure if it is because I am annfper but I try to focus on keeping myself healthy and think less about what my body looks like.  This doesn’t always work but I know that if I am healthy on the inside it will show on the outside. (It really bugs me when people can eat junk and do nothing and still be drop-dead gorgeous)

Being healthy for me means eating enough of the right stuff and saying no enough times to the wrong (but oh-so-yummy!) stuff.  I also take quite a cocktail of natural supplements like fish oil, vitamin D3, and other essentials.  Excessive fat rolls are the least of my worries in the post-partum stage.  When I feel very frazzled and overwhelmed, I’m glad for the supplements I can take for the sake of my mental health.  (And for my kids’ and husband’s safety)

Exercise is something I’ve always done so I try and keep up with that as I am able.  I like to do a combination of weight-resistance and cardio work through running/brisk walking or a group aerobic class.  Yoga and Pilates are definitely relaxing yet productive work-outs I enjoy a lot, too.

 Every now and then I’ll see a pregnant woman at the gym and then a few weeks after the kid pops out there she is, skinny and ragged like a twig in the wind.  That is definitely not for me.  I like to set goals and all but try and be realistic and healthy.  It took almost ten months to get all big and flabby, is it such a horrible thing for it to take just as long to return to ‘normal’? I like having some reminder of the babies I carried inside me and a poochy tummy is perfect for that.

My baby has been out of me for five months but I still fall asleep at night with my hands on my belly.  (It may seem weird but I like the way the wrinkly skin feels.)  I like to remember.  I love looking at my baby, and my other two, and remember that there in the depths of my womb, their lives began.  I may not fit into my pre-pregnancy pants yet, or ever again, and that’s ok.  I’m ok with it because I know I have one heck of an amazing body.  It has grown, birthed, and fed three beautiful souls.  I’m willing to bet that is a bigger accomplishment than zipping up my pants all the way.


Tonight at dinner, my daughter asked me some real good questions.

“Momma?”

“Yes?”

“Do I have the words in my mind before I talk?”

“Hmm, yes usually it is good to think about what we want to say and then talk.  Our brain sends messages to our mouth when we think so we can say the thoughts out loud.” 

I could see her thinking about this as she stared at me and opened and closed her mouth.

“Momma?”

“mmhmm?”

“Why do grown-ups still learn but they still don’t know everything?”

“Well, because we are not God. Only God knows everything”

“Momma, since Jesus is God…but He is Jesus…does He know everything, too?”

I answered, as best as I could, that since Jesus is God He also knows everything.  I could see the wheels turning in her head and remembered how the same thoughts used to turn around in my own as a child.  Then I remembered a question that flew into my mind the other day about this same subject.  Since Jesus is God, and God knows everything, how come Jesus said that only God the Father knows the day and hour that Jesus will return again?  (Matt 24:36, “but of that day and hour no one knows, neither the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father alone.”)

Out of all the questions my daughter asks me, the ones pertaining to God and His Trinitarian nature stump me the most.  So today, I decided to spend some time learning about the Catholic Church’s teaching on the dogma of the Holy Trinity. (Catechism of the Catholic Church 253-256) Here are some excerpts that stirred my thoughts up.  I accept these teachings but what a mind-blowing mystery it all is!  Once again, I welcome all friendly discussion!!

CCC 253 “The Trinity is One..the divine persons do not share the one divinity among themselves but each of them is God whole and entire: “The Father is that which the Son is, the Son that which the Father is, the Father and the Son that which the Holy Spirit is, i.e., by nature one God.”

CCC 254 “The divine person are really distinct from one another…’Father,’ ‘Son,’ ‘Holy Spirit’ are not simply names designating modalities of the divine being, for they are really distinct from one another: ‘He is not the Father who is the Son, nor is the Son he who is the Father, nor is the Holy Spirit he who is the Father or the Son.’.. [Did that confuse anyone else at all?] They are distinct from one another in their relations of origin: it is the Father who generates, the Son who is begotten, and the Holy Spirit who proceeds.”  

CCC 255 “The divine persons are relative to one another… ‘In the relational names of the persons the Father is related to the Son, the Son to the Father, and the Holy Spirit to both.  While they are called three persons in view of their relations, we believe in one nature or substance’…Because of that unity the Father is wholly in the Son and wholly in the Holy Spirit; the Son is wholly in the Father and wholly in the Holy Spirit; and the Holy Spirit is wholly in the Father and wholly in the Son.”


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1. Steamed 3 shirts

2. Went to the zoo and no one had any huge meltdowns!

3. Bought new shoes for my daughter. (and none for me!)


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